When an aging loved one nears the end of his or her life, it can be an emotional time for families. It is not uncommon during this time for family members to avoid the subject out of denial or fear of the impending loss. However, taking the time to properly prepare for the days ahead can provide a sense of comfort for everyone involved.
Document Your Loved One’s Wishes
Most Boca Raton home care agencies encourage clients to have their wishes in writing. Advanced health care directives, such as a living will and durable power of attorney, can reassure family members that their loved one’s wishes are respected, thereby easing the challenges associated with many serious end-of-life decisions.
Spend as Much Time Together as Possible
Throughout the aging process, older adults reflect upon their lives and enjoy reliving memories with their loved ones. It becomes more important than ever to focus on spending time together and making sure your loved one knows the importance of their influence on your life.
Talk to the Doctors
Those who are coping with a terminal illness may experience a series of symptoms that indicate a person is nearing the end of their life. Knowing what to expect during these moments can help to ease your concerns and provide you with valuable insight as to how to ensure your loved one’s comfort.
Arrange for Additional Care
At times, you may find yourself overwhelmed with emotions and need a short break from caregiving. You may also prefer to spend as much time with your loved one as possible while being unburdened by tending to their physical needs. In these instances, it is best to have additional hourly or live-in caregivers in place that can take over daily tasks while freeing you to handle the loss in a way that feels best.
Join a Support Group
Coping with loss is best done with the love and support of others who understand the grieving process. Support groups and therapists are a valuable asset that can help you manage your grief early on in the process so that you can find peace as you honor your loved one’s life.
For more information on senior planning or to find additional help or resources, call Home Care Assistance at (561) 826.9282. As a leading provider of home care, including comprehensive Alzheimer’s, dementia, and Parkinson’s care in Boca Raton, we complete everyday tasks around the home, maximize senior comfort, and ensure your time is devoted to what really matters—your loved one.